Post 6: My Son Has No Interest in ‘The Girl’

There is nothing quite like returning home from a long stressful day at work to find your son in an equally as foul mood as your boss. I have yet to discover the source of my boss’s aggravation, but my son’s turned out to be a lot easier to work out.
Primarily because it did not take any working out.
He greeted me with a disgruntled complaint about this blog. Yes, readers, my son has found this blog. He has asked me to refrain from writing any further about my “completely fictional account of his love life” and to tell you all that “he has no interest in the girl”.
I find this behaviour somewhat out of character if the truth is to be told. Normally, if I partook in something he disagreed with, my son would roll his eyes and ignore me. Even if my actions affected him. So he cares enough about this to actually make comment.
His actions hardly support his statements…
But I suppose it is natural to become embarrassed around such topics. Although I know he struggles with emotion, I will try and make him feel more comfortable about discussing these topics with me.
I thought about giving him a raise in his pocket money, so he could take the girl out, but I fear he would only spend it on books. Perhaps a giftcard to a local cafe would work…
Love,

Lynn

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